I was coping fine with Bob - until pedophilia came up - then his comment to you pushed me to a really dark side. That is the thing with xians, it makes one go into dark places, that I just don't want to be. It was affecting me physically, so when he came out with his patronizing diatribe to you, then you let rip - that was wonderful. I had stopped myself from calling him names, I was trying to keep it civil. But you had the guts to. Bravo you.