For those who have not read my other blog posts, there is this girl that I am getting involved with and she is a really big Christian. We were talking the other night and she said she doesn't know what she wants. She is confused about liking me and stuff, so I was just replying back the best way I could when she texts me and says "I need a favor from you." I say "Okay, what is it?" This is her favor "I need you to have sex with my best friend." I didn't know if it was a trick question or not, besides, her friend isn't that easy on the eyes so I say "Uh, I'm sorry but your friend is a nice person and all but I'm going to have to say no." So then she says "Well why not? I really need you to do this for me. Please?" I just say back "No, I'm sorry. That's just not what I do haha, I'm not that kind of guy. Why do you want me to anyway?" Now this part just totally caught me off guard. She said "Because it will make me jealous and then making me want you more." This is coming from a Christian girl!

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Comment by Misty: Baytheist Living! on July 17, 2011 at 3:41pm

She's fucking with your head, dude. Straight up emotional abuse. That's pretty much psychological warfare coming from a person that claims to care for you. 

Imagine what you'd be labeled as if you told her that? What's the difference? You have a penis?

At this point my advice is to run away. 

 

Comment by Spartacus of Thrace on July 17, 2011 at 4:01pm

Drop her. Now. (Seriously).

 

And what she is doing has nothing to do with her religious beliefs.

Comment by Rocky Oliver (LotusGeek) on July 17, 2011 at 4:17pm

She is a class-A psycho. You should run - not walk, RUN - away. NOW.

Do not pass go, do not collect... well, anything.

Except maybe your sanity, that you would otherwise lose if you choose to stay even remotely involved with this freak show.

Life is too short and there are way, way too many (relatively) normal peeps out there. Let someone else deal with this psycho chick....

Comment by Michael Marrero on July 17, 2011 at 4:25pm
It's a trap!
Comment by Steve on July 17, 2011 at 5:40pm
If she said "She is dying soon and wants to have sex before that" or even "She really, really needs to get laid", I might consider such a thing. The former certainly more than the letter. But that jealousy line is just immature nonsense.
Comment by Seth Jon Nonnemaker on July 17, 2011 at 5:55pm
@Spartacus - But isn't it crazy hearing that from a Christian woman?! Oh wait, I forgot....SHE'S CHRISTIAN! That's why she is crazy.
Comment by John Jenkins on July 17, 2011 at 5:56pm
That girl is not a Christian.
Comment by Seth Jon Nonnemaker on July 17, 2011 at 5:59pm
@John - yea I should've put quotations around Christian....You hardly ever see a true 100% Christian anymore.
Comment by Dale Headley on July 17, 2011 at 6:09pm
The difference between atheists and Christians, in terms of morals and ethics, is that Christians don't really worry about eternal repercussions, since Christ already died (for three days) for their sins.
Comment by James on July 17, 2011 at 7:09pm

@John - Ah, the good 'ol no true Scotsman fallacy. Just because her morals are not in line with yours (or ours) does not exclude her as a Christian. If she believes that Jesus was the son of God (or God in human form) then she is a Christian. People are individuals, so I always find it silly when believers (in whatever religion) can't fathom that a member of their 'club' could come up short morally, ethically, etc. So long as she accepts Jesus as her lord and savior, she's Christian. Maybe she doesn't adhere (or just ignores) to parts that you do. But with so many different sects of Christianity out there, every Christian rejects or ignores things that a different sect may cling or focus on.

 

Cheers!

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