when to decide it is time to divorce?

I was raised in arab christian roman orthodoxian family and a muslim society. i had no choice but to marry in a church. arab eastern traditions are many to mention here but most important is divorce is not possible unless there is adultery or insanity. before, if possible, to find a way to get divorce, i want advices when to decide to get divorce? asking myself, do i have enough reasons? please advise.

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Comment by Akshay Bist on April 29, 2011 at 9:21am
Is it the social norm or is it the law?
Comment by james d on April 29, 2011 at 9:32am

if you take the religious aspect out, then divorce is merely a matter of deciding if you have any chance of being happy with this person in a situation where you are growing and respected...

 

if those are missing, it isn't much or a friendship let alone a marriage. don't let your culture or your church tell you what your heart and your mind are saying to you, i stayed 10 years too long in a dead marriage.

Comment by Doug Reardon on April 29, 2011 at 10:39am
If you are married to someone you truly do not like, get a divorce or at least live separately.
Comment by Walter Maki on April 29, 2011 at 10:55am
You only have one life and if both of you just can not get along then why torture anymore.
Comment by Sophie on April 29, 2011 at 11:26am
Get divorced asap. If you are already asking these questions it is time to get out.
Comment by Hope on April 29, 2011 at 12:11pm
and now you are happily married to your faithful atheism... good for you Fadi.
Comment by Discern on April 29, 2011 at 7:20pm
Is it the christian church's perspective you are worried about? Does the muslim society influence your decision at all? Do you know anyone that is divorced?
Comment by Fadi Qassis on April 30, 2011 at 1:03am

Dear guys, thanks for the comments, appreciated

but to tell you the truth, my wife "loves" me and "claims" she's happy..me? on the contrary, not at all, that's why i'm confused..i don't want to be harmful but it's my life and my happiness after all, isn't it?

Comment by Fadi Qassis on April 30, 2011 at 1:06am

muslim society doesn't have influence on my life but the traditions which is also accepted by arab christians.

but the church is strict in divorcing, only for adultery or insanity, which i can't claim the other part have one of them.

Comment by Richard Dean Barnes on April 30, 2011 at 3:33am
I think only you can really answer this question because only you know if there is any value left in the relationship. For me personally, when the love is gone, so is the marriage. Simple. I marry for love. Without it, there is nothing that I define as "marriage" left. Good luck to you.

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