I have been “out” as an Atheist for over 25 years. I live in Ireland where it is not an issue. I have never thought of it in terms of coming out. I just am one. However I still find most people do not understand what it means when someone says “I am an Atheist”. I do not make a big deal out of it. There are people who know me through work or socially who do not know. This is only because it is not tattooed on my forehead. Even when I get accosted by fundamentalists on the street or doorstep I do not inform them. It will however become obvious to them after the first few rounds of questions. Most people figure it out because I am militant towards having a separation of Church and State (in all countries). I also detest the promotion of Creationist bullshit in schools and the religious indoctrination of children by “educators”. I don’t really care whoever gets upset or annoyed by this. I challenge these topics whenever they raise their ugly heads. These issues aside, I do not challenge individuals unless “they start it”. However once it becomes clear that I am an Atheist people’s attitudes change.

Many Theists do not “get it” that I do not believe in the existence of gods, especially their one. Generally they jump to the conclusion rather than making a statement about my (lack of) belief, I am attacking theirs.. This is because the word “Atheist” tends to bypass their wall of Faith and kick their Doubt (critical thought) back into life. This is what happens in the next few seconds:

They become aware of a sensation that confuses them. “How could somebody not believe in God?” (especially someone I have known for a long time). Then panic caused by having a momentary Doubt sets in until they get rescued by their indoctrination and years of confirmation bias by their peers. Wait – the Elders told me this moment might happen. This person has been sent to challenge my Faith. Doubts are bad, Faith is good. God I love you pray keep me safe from this Atheist. Thank you Jesus for strengthening my Faith in you! Now I can challenge this so called Atheist.

Then I hear something like – “I don’t see why you need to disrespectful towards my Religion. I have a personal faith with Jesus and he comes to my aid and answers my prayers whenever I ask him. He never lets me down. My faith is strong. I mean it must take just as much faith not to believe in Jesus. What about your eternal soul? I will pray for you.”

All I have said is that “I am an Atheist. I am not attacking you – I am only saying I do not believe what you believe”.

By claiming to be an Atheist you set off alarm bells in the Theists mind. This is because we have one understanding of what being an Atheist means but the Theists has another one which has been built up by prejudices and misinformation over the years. So before any Theist can be at ease around an Atheist they need to understand what being an Atheist means. It is important to do this properly. You have to remember that creating doubt also creates fear in their mind. Once the fear is quelled and they understand you are not an immoral Satanist in league with Lucifer they will accept your stance. There is no need for you to ever challenge their beliefs. They will do that for themselves because they are compelled to think about why you are an Atheist. Once they trust you, they will ask you questions. All you ever need to do is free them from their bias towards Atheists which is caused by Atheophobia

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Comment by M on April 26, 2011 at 1:44pm

I saw an interview of Ricky Gervais somewhere...  ?  Anyway, the host accused him of mocking Christianity simply by being an atheist.  Ricky Gervais, in his usual charming way, politiely refuted this.  What kind of logic is that?  If I followed that line of thinking, I would be mocking the male gender simply by being female.  I'd be mocking those who are not college-educated by being college-educated.  Etc., etc.  For that matter, Christians would be mocking atheists just by being Christians. 

 

Thanks, by the way, for introducing the term "atheophobia."  It's fun to say and good to know.

Comment by Chris Veritás on April 26, 2011 at 4:17pm
Yeah, Ricky Gervais is a cool, logical guy but he sometimes interrupts or contradicts himself. Anyway, to me, belief or non-belief, all that Atheism really is: A refusal to deny the obvious. The burden of proof lies on religion. I can't see something that they claim exists, and yet somehow, I'M the crazy one. Sometimes, I can't help but feel the need to attack. It pisses me off how intelligent people can fall into a myth that keeps mankind in a bondage to fanatsy and nonsense. It's simply a beuraucracy between man and an imaginary friend that I don't need.
Comment by zoolady on December 9, 2013 at 10:53pm

I think the ''godly'' actually FEAR and RESENT us because we stand for freedom from their religious restrictions...and we live happy, healthy lives!  No boils...no plagues...none of the lightning bolts from heaven....we just live happy, healthy lives.

When I ''came out'' to my mother, she stopped talking to me for awhile.  I think she resented the fact that I proved her superstitions were useless..made the point that her sacrifices for religion were all in vain.

Comment by bongani muthwa on December 10, 2013 at 1:59am

My wife just resenlty asked me to pray over our breakfast. I just loughed at her, she was testing waters if I have not yet 'repented'. I explained to her that we bought the grocery, I prepared  the breakfast, if any one should be thanked, we should start with the farmer, the pig, the chicken, etc, until we thank me.

Comment by Belle Rose on January 26, 2014 at 12:20pm
RE: This is only because it is not tattooed on my forehead.........

Yet, lol
Comment by Reg The Fronkey Farmer on January 26, 2014 at 3:20pm

Yes, I have quite a collection of "Atheist" tattoos now....haha

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