I've heard believers say things like "You've chosen to reject god," or "You've chosen to be an atheist." I've never felt like I chose to be an atheist. These days, I like it a lot -- it's liberating -- but in the early days it was tough going. If it had been a matter of making choices, I'm not sure it's one that I would have made. I might have chosen to be a Christian like most of the people I knew, and be accepted into that community. Atheism felt more like something that happened to me, like a realization that I couldn't avoid, regardless of what I would have chosen.
Religion seems the same. How could I have "chosen" to believe in a god? Or not to?
I realize that nothing is as simple as that. Sure, the Jack Chick tracts make it look like all you have to do is make a decision and the deal will be closed, but for most people the journey is more complicated than that. We're all influenced by what we read and hear, and by the people around us. There are some choices we can make that can influence outcomes, I suppose. And we all know that lots of people so happen to believe, or profess to believe, what their parents and neighbors believe.
All I know is that I never chose to become an atheist. The only choice I made was whether or not to accept it and be honest about it.
To what extent did making choices enter into it for you? Did you choose to be an atheist?
Comment by Heather Spoonheim on March 25, 2011 at 11:14am All I know is that I never chose to become an atheist. The only choice I made was whether or not to accept it and be honest about it.
I feel pretty much the same way Lee. Without going into a lot of detail (which reflected in my blog) I just had to be honest with myself. When my wife present this type of questioning to to me I said "Why would I choose something that will get lots of negative feed back and make my life more difficult. I made my decision based on what I have learned and just couldn't rationalize being religious anymore". I didn't choose it, it chose me out of reason and logic. Forgive the religious reference but "I was blind but now I can see (for myself)". Now I am an atheist.
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Comment by Joe Lofty on March 25, 2011 at 1:16pm I grew up as a Seventh Day Adventist Christian. As I grew up and got more and more interested in science and developed some form of logic, the less and less it made sense to me. I never chose; it drove me away.
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Comment by Kris Feenstra on March 25, 2011 at 8:26pm Ah... yes and no. Mostly no.
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