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The meaning of life is "42" lol. But to be more serious... I would say... yeah.. . you're right... life has no meaning... except what meaning you give to it! My chosen meaning of life is "I am here to improve the life of other people before I disappear [die]" - This is the basic tenant of secular humanism. There are an infinite number of "meanings of life" you could choose from... and the universe doesn't care about any of them. But that's okay... because a rock doesn't care either... and the non-living parts of the universe have the cognition of a rock. They don't care... but that's okay.Second... atheism isn't a belief... it's a LACK of belief... atheists hold beliefs with regards to other things but the only thing you have to have to be an atheist is a lack of belief in gods. I will use the comedic response of one atheist: "You're an atheist too... I just believe in one less god than you." lol.
Third... it's okay to answer a question you don't know the answer to with "I don't know." I do this all the time. What "caused" the big bang [if anything did. Maybe it wasn't "caused"]. I don't know. Why is the universe composed mostly of empty space? I don't know.Sometimes "I don't know" is the best answer to a question. Is there a "god" in the raw sense of no known attributes? I don't know.
I think it is far more appropriate to say "I don't know" when you don't know the answer than to assume something unproven "did it."
"Your best bet is not to have a doctrine but to have a personal private relationship with God and Christ."Logically... I can't do this. My brain makes it impossible to know whether the "voice of god" is my imagination running away with itself, or if I'm crazy and don't know it. [The crazy usually don't know they are crazy.""you recognize that you are a sinner just like everyone else"I already know I'm a "sinner." When I have hurt someone I beg forgiveness from the PERSON I HURT not a god. Because it is the victim of your evil who deserves your repentence.
"Believing Jesus is Lord and Savior.(Yes the belief of the resurrection is necessary)"I can't believe this because 1. This would require faith without evidence [never met the man] and 2. There is growing evidence that Jesus may have never existed even as a human being. If that is the truth... why would I not worship Zeus? or Hercules?
... I was a Christian once... like you. I was raised as a Protestant... and believed Jesus talked to me in my head. I believed I had a "personal relationship" with him... until I was 16... and I woke up. It was much like when you wake suddenly from a dream with a jerk and your eyes and brain start adjusting to reality. I am a DECONVERTED atheist. I DID try to go back to god... but I was going through the motions... I didn't believe it anymore. It's like when you lose faith in Santa... you can't go back to what was before. It's not scary to be alone... because you can think better when you're alone. Atheists aren't really "god haters", we're skeptics. We are a lot like the people who don't think that aliens cause crop circles. I love humanity as a humanist. I saw a homeless man downtown digging for a scrap of food in a trashcan and wanted to cry. I gave him my lunch. I see muslims blow up a car or themselves and cry for humanity. The cruelty that humans can inflict on one another is sometimes beyond comprehension. Yet... I have seen humans do incredible things when their internal sense of empathy makes them reach out to another. I am guided by an internal moral compass that many call a "conscience." I do not use the rules of others [including a god] to guide me. I look at other people and put myself in their shoes. When I see their suffering I act as a mother-like figure and stand at their bedside to hold their hand while the fever runs through them or they fear an impending death. My PURPOSE in life is to be the one who holds a mother as she sobs for her dead child or knits a homemade sweater for a homeless child. That is what Secular Humanism is all about. The real meaning of life is that LIFE IS NOT ABOUT YOU.
I don't miss Christianity. I don't miss the fear and the self-hatred and the pain. I DO miss the support of my loved ones of faith. But... more importantly... I can't return to faith... after four years of trying I learned that.
You make your own purpose... good luck to you in your journey in life. When your life is hard... try looking for a loved one's hand to hold... rather than god.
Lastly... you said that "you would be better off not being an atheist because it has a dying end." I'm surprised first that you don't think I'm going to burn in hell. But if you REALLY stop to think about it... what's so bad about Oblivion? There is something beautiful and sad about death. Two days ago I accompanied a Catholic friend to his grandmother's grave. I was ready to put a hand on his shoulder if he needed it. But as I was there I found myself thinking how peaceful the cemetary was. The people working there had worked hard to upkeep the place so it was full of flowers and trees, birds and butterflies. Who would not want to go to sleep under a shady tree in a meadow of wildflowers? In reality that's what oblivion means to me... nothing scary... nothing despairing... an endless peaceful sleep... unafflicted by nightmares or pain. A place where you can finally rest after life has worn you out. What is so bad about a long, dreamless sleep? Sure... there's no happiness or joy or pleasure... but there's also no pain or sorrow. I don't think that's quite as bad as I used to... and atheism has made me unafraid to die.
Peace and joy to you while you wander this world.-Skycomet-
2/17/2011 - Update:
Theist:
"life has no meaning"
If life had no meaning it would not even exist
By making your own choice of what life means to you is a derivation of the basis of the original meaning.
Me: Why must life have a meaning to exist? I know that our human brains want to make sense out of everything... but sometimes we make meaning in a place where there is none. For example... take the whole "face on Mars" thing. That "face" just turned out to be the human mind trying to make sense out of a bad picture and when the picture was updated... the face wasn't there at all. I am a psychology major and this is a common phenomenon I think I recall it being called "Apoptyma." [EDIT: THE WORD IS ACTUALLY APOPHENIA! - WIKIPEDIA ON APOPHENIA:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apophenia ...sorry... the class in which I learned this was 2 years ago.. oops. *blush* ] What it means is simply that the human brain is programmed to find patterns where there are none and SPECIFICALLY to assign human attributes and motives to processes and objects that have none. It is NOT a mental illness, but rather an evolutionary trait in the vast majority of human brains with the tendency to misfire quite often. [Ever wonder why you can see faces in clouds if you lie back and look at them for a while? That's a form of apoptygma [Apophenia] that assigns illusory images where they don't really exist.] So... back to the question at hand... Why must life have a meaning? Could the very IDEA that it has to have one simply be our human minds misfiring with apoptygma [Apophenia]? I think this could be quite possible. As a psychology major... I have learned to be quite careful about saying I KNOW something is real. Afterall... it could just be your mind playing tricks on you again. Happens to everyone. ^_^
Comment by Heather Spoonheim on February 17, 2011 at 5:50am
Comment by Skycomet the Fallen Angel on February 17, 2011 at 9:32pm I know... it was very difficult trying to find the words to respond to him... but since his question wasn't "trollish" I thought it would only be polite to answer... in some way.
Of course, when he responded [see update #1] It became obvious that the point I was trying to make went ZIP over his head! Sometimes theists are as difficult to talk to as a brick wall. :P
He can FORGET about converting me. lol. I've seen all the arguments he posed debunked again and again. But, I saw in him a polite and [possibly] inquisitive theist and decided to take my chances and try to crack through the dogma wall around his head.
Comment by Heather Spoonheim on February 17, 2011 at 9:49pm
Comment by Pope OoO (Out of Order) on February 27, 2011 at 2:38am I liked the idea of a word that describes pattern illusions, so I searched and searched for apoptygma and everything I could think of close to it, including ending with stygma or starting with hyper, etc. Ha, then I looked up "pattern illusion" and eventually came across "clustering illusion"... and finally found pareidolia.
Woohoo, thank you for a useful new word! But I must say, this one's going to be difficult for me to remember how to spell properly. I prefer apoptygma, or something close to that. :)
Comment by Pope OoO (Out of Order) on February 27, 2011 at 3:03am Pareidolia is also in the TA dictionary.
Haha, but wait... so in wikipedia it says:
Now, apophenia isn't in the TA Dictionary, and I don't see a way to add words there. I need to study these words more first anyway, before recommending to add apophenia.Pareidolia is a type of apophenia.
Comment by Skycomet the Fallen Angel on February 27, 2011 at 2:48pm aak! The word is "apophenia!" I totally got it mixed up! Too late to send it to theist... [not speaking to me anymore] but I'll fix it here.
Wikipedia provides a very similar definition as my textbook for this phenomenon:
Apophenia is the experience of seeing meaningful patterns or connections in random or meaningless data.
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