Comment by Cara Coleen on June 7, 2009 at 7:12pm

"...I'm a better human being than he is despite my belief system." Let me rephrase this. You are a better person than he is BECAUSE of your belief system.

Let me tell you, TA is a good place to start looking for nice boys who don't believe in fairy tails. I found one here! :) Don't date any more religious people... they don't deserve you.

Comment by Erica on June 7, 2009 at 7:17pm

Thanks for the encouraging words Cara. I appreciate it! And you're totally right.

Comment by Jeremy Roney on June 7, 2009 at 7:50pm

I had a girl I was seeing dump me about 2 months ago. She never really told me why, but I know that the fact that I refused to send any future children to church was at least part of the reason. We had been together for nearly 4 years, and I was more than ready to marry her... I definetely know what you mean about being strung along. Its not easy trying to meet fellow atheists, thats for sure.

Comment by Erica on June 7, 2009 at 8:00pm

That's pretty harsh Jeremy. I guess I'm lucky we only dated for a couple months.

Comment by Jeremy Roney on June 7, 2009 at 8:06pm

Yeah, the really great thing about it is that she knew how I felt since the very first week we were together and never really seemed to care (she wasn't particularly relgious herself, guess people change?).

Comment by Erica on June 7, 2009 at 8:11pm

That's the exact same issue in my "relationship". He knew from the first conversation we had that I was an atheist. He even said he was agnostic. Lame.

Comment by Jeremy Roney on June 7, 2009 at 8:27pm

Wow, obviously he doesn't quite understand the term?

Comment by Erica on June 7, 2009 at 8:28pm

i think he just wanted to get laid. Haha!

Comment by Jeremy Roney on June 7, 2009 at 8:29pm

Sad, but probably true :(

Comment by Theresa on June 7, 2009 at 8:43pm

I could never see myself dating a Theist...I feel like they'd feel like they were on another playing field in life. The last thing you want is your SO to pity you for not going to some glorious heaven with them. *rolls eyes* It also seems it would be a hard compromise if children were added to the equation. Lets hope the boys on here don't believe in fairy tales. :P I would just start chatting with people here. You never know how it could turn out. :)

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