AA; 12 steps to healthy or 12 steps to holy? (or "How a religious cult got hold of our vulnerable and sick")

Most of us throughout the course of our lives have heard of AA and their 12 step program. This is a highly respected organization whose mandate is to help those who can't help themselves through a powerful support system. People go there when they feel that their lives have spiraled out of control with alcohol, the courts intervene to send people there when they cross the law because of alcohol abuse, even the military will send its troubled members there. Is it an institution set up as savior to those who have fallen victim to the monster of abuse, or is it a wolf in saviors clothing, hiding behind a thin veneer of moral intention?

I would like to share a few things that you may NOT have known.

First before I go on, I should share the most important point.

It is ineffective.

Alcoholics, when left to their own devices and with no intervention, have a 5% recovery rate. When AA steps in to offer its professional help the recovery rate it boasts is around 5%.

Confused yet? Wondering why courts would send people who are asking for help, whose lives are falling apart in the face of the ills that they have heaped upon themselves, and who are begging to be saved from their own helplessness in the face of their self professed weakness to a program whose success rates are only marginally better (at best) then just leaving them to their own sorrows and woes?
I do too.
The answer is contained within the 12 step program that is advertised with such genius as the answer to an alcoholics needs.

Prayer.

1: We admitted we were powerless over alcohol--that our lives had become unmanageable.
2: Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3: Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4: Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5: Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6: Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7: Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8: Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
9: Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10: Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
11: Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12: Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

Praying for (preying upon?) the weak and vulnerable?

Still wonder why no one questions the effectiveness of this program despite its lack of success?

Certainly makes ME think that the point is not a cure. Makes me think that the point is to evangelize and spread the god claim to those who are too vulnerable to resist.

That doesn't seem moral to me.

This program doesn't seek to empower, it seeks to enslave, to dis-empower those who need strength by telling them that they simply can't do it without an invisible friend. To show us how little we really are without "god" and his infinite wisdom and knowledge. To show us how wicked we are without him.

In short to brainwash and indoctrinate us.


Morality would be to show these people how much power they have within them, and to offer them the treatment and the support with which they can engage this personal power to save themselves. Not to evangelize and disguise your personal baseless beliefs as answers to people who are desperately in need of help.

The final immorality is the last step. The step where they pledge to continue to prey on the next generation of victims.

No one would criticize a program where the power of prayer is used to heal. An organization that is safe from recrimination because of the moral invulnerability to criticism that society lends all religious faith. Funds being directed at this organization are misplaced funds (albeit from member donations) and are actually harming the 95% of people who really need help. Those funds could go to in the form of donations to other more effective programs to greater results.

This is no coincidence that this prayer in action is ineffective.

It is ineffective BECAUSE it is prayer in action, or should I say prayer "inaction".

Lets together decide to see the elephant in the room, and send these people in need to a less crowded one where they will get the psychiatric help that they need.


"Prayer is the only way to do nothing and still think that you are helping"

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Comment by SparkleyFlowers on April 25, 2009 at 4:18pm
One of my best friends (who is agnostic) has a very serious drinking problem. She's been sober for just over a month, now. A few of us from our circle stepped in for an impromptu sort of intervention. It seems to have woken her up.

She decided to look into AA, and found a women's weekly meeting. I went along with her to the first meeting for moral support. I was very uncomfortable with the whole situation. You are absolutely spot-on when you say they are about brainwashing, indoctrinating and mentally enslaving their "victims".

Attending the meeting prompted me to do a little research into secular organizations for addiction. There's not really much out there. But, I was able to find SOS (Secular Organization for Sobriety). There's not really much in the way of meetings and such. However, the reading material suggested has been very helpful for my friend. I've read a couple of the books recommended by the organization just for the knowledge and to better understand what my friend is going through.

So far so good.
Comment by Bleacheddecay on April 26, 2009 at 12:29am
It is a group about being without power. I have no power over my addiction. Bullshit.

However, I will say that I went to one Alanon meeting. What I learned there was invaluable but it should have been obvious. I learned I wasn't alone. Everyone else in that room had other people blaming them for the behavior of someone who abused alcohol. I'd thought it was just me and my family dynamics.

So some good came out of that one meeting for me.

*shrug*
Comment by Dave G on April 26, 2009 at 12:31am
That's probably the most valuable lesson you can learn from AA<, that you are not alone.
Comment by J Burgoyne on April 26, 2009 at 8:18am
With a success rate that is equal to doing it on your own, I am not sure that it is worth giving up one master for another.
Comment by Rev. James Thomas Hicks, D.D. on April 26, 2009 at 5:18pm
Hi, I'm Rev. James Thomas Hicks D.D. & I'm an alcoholic & sex addict. *takes in the warm welcome*

Seriously though, you do get a sense of understandin' from the people you meet with. So they prayed, so I stood there with 'em while they did it, so what. Get over it. You can't brainwash a thinker & it's not nice to judge their beliefs or make note of it to the crowd. Just talk your issues out (I never did, I just passed each time).
Comment by Dave G on April 26, 2009 at 5:29pm
It becomes more of a problem when the attendee is there by order of the court, and if they do not follow the 12 steps (including giving oneself to God), then they may go to jail. That's conversion by threat.
Comment by J Burgoyne on April 26, 2009 at 10:15pm
The point is that you are targeting people who are in various stages of vulnerability. YOU are a reverend, so I would assume you think that no one can be "indoctrinated" unless they choose to believe. The sad fact remains that it is subterfuge to pass off a religious institution as a health and recovery institution. With people needing support, understanding, and love in these situations, it is not out of the realm of possibility that a vulnerable person might give in to the brainwashing in order to gain succor. The fact remains that people are not cured at any higher rate while in AA than they are when left to their own devices, so clearly it is not working and the only purpose that remains is the evangelizing.
Our attentions are better served going toward a group that might actually HELP the people in need instead of sucking them into a cult like mentality of an evangelical pretender to therapy.
Comment by Bleacheddecay on May 1, 2009 at 12:47pm
I do wish there were more SOS chapters in every local area!

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