Comment by Ed on October 5, 2011 at 10:08am Andrew,
Your zeal is appreciated but the road to 'sky fairy' enlightenment is a long one for most. Speak your mind but try to retain your composure, tact, and diplomacy. It does get frustrating I must admit. Sometimes I want to just speak my innermost thoughts to someone and relay just how foolish and irrational theism is. But this accomplishes nothing but create a stumbling block to their possible awakening. Once they become defensive and close their mind to you the battle is lost.
Comment by Andrew Carrington on October 5, 2011 at 10:38am This is true, although sometimes very difficult. I try to retain my diplomacy on the whole but sometimes venting is also a viable option too.
Comment by Andrew Carrington on October 5, 2011 at 1:57pm I wish I could claim it as my own...but I am sure I have heard this somewhere before I used it ;-)
Comment by Derek on October 6, 2011 at 12:08am I prefer "calling atheism a religion is like calling bald a hair colour."
Back on topic: In my experience of debating the religious in person, I find the following to be the most effective way of talking to them: You should always try to maintain composure when talking to the religious...ALWAYS... unless they are complete dicks of course... Concentrate on conveying your standpoint clearly, directly, and without emotional baggage or appeals. Know how to cut to the heart of a discussion, without being sidetracked by irrelevant factors. Keep your cool, especially when you sense someone trying to provoke you.
Don't expect immediate change. No one will ever say, "Gosh, you're right!" Make your point, plant the seed, and let it go. Give them time to mull it over and start thinking they changed their mind themselves. We can seem petty and reactionary, or we can seem progressive and selfless. It's harder to argue against the latter : )
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