My wife and I are not out about our views, at least not directly. I think that most of our VERY conservative and christian family suspects that we are not like them, but they just don't know exactly how different we are.
Anyways, I do love my family. I also love my wife's family. I would not deliberately hurt them. I think that in order for our children to have a relationship with any of their grandparents, its best if we just let sleeping dogs lie, and let them think we have just fallen from grace. I am starting to have some issues though, especially now that my child is learning to talk and comprehend.
My problem is with the constant little things. My mother in law likes to teach the kids to pray, sing hymns, give books about Noah's ark, ect. I have limited my daughters contact with her because of this. I do not have a problem with her understanding faith when she is old enough to distinguish between fact and fiction. I do have a SERIOUS problem with this type of early indoctrination. Does anyone have any constructive ways to address this situation without damaging what family ties we do have?