hi, i am a new member to this site and have some questions about after life.

it all started  a year a ago and accumilited over time and lots of thinking. over the time of a year my grandfater had part of his right ear cut off, found meloma in his lungs, colon cancer and also 7 brain turmors. one night really stood out, when he said " well at least i know that when i die i will go to heave with my brother who was killed in an airplane accedent and to see my parents again. its helpfull in times of pain that we(the faimly being catholic) will be in a better body with god." i know that sounds dumb but i think christianity does offer comfort to people but i still dont know what to believe. my life isnt that great and i gues thinking that one day when you die youl go to this great place called heaven, then i think it is all BS so i just dont know what to think anymore. i am raised (17 and living with my parents) catholic and we always have to go to church every sunday and i did receve the confermation in which "the holly spirit will come into your life" and when that happened the archbishop did the ritual and i didnt feel anything and i just looked at him with comfusion and steped down. well i gues this is just a a post about me but if anyone wants to give advice on what to believe in when it comes to this after life or no after life thanks

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Comment by Unseen on May 10, 2012 at 7:40pm

I simply don't have time to answer all that. However,...

"But then, if we're talking about life after death, it's obviously not the same kind of life that we're all used to, so if it exists, it has a different definition." Which you didn't bother to explain until pressed.

The word conclusion has two meanings and I think we are arguing across purposes. You seem to be accusing me of drawing a conclusion in the sense of "Case closed, lights out, we'll never reconsider this again." But then there's the kind of conclusions science draws, provisional conclusions based on what it knows. Given indisputable evidence, science regularly opens up inquiries and tosses out or modifies theories." That's the kind of conclusions I draw. You simply haven't provided me with an overwhelming reason to reconsider my conclusions. However, I'm agnostic about the existence of God, spirits, the afterlife, etc. At this point, I've concluded (in the second sense) that it's all nonsense.

Comment by Simon Paynton on May 12, 2012 at 2:20pm

Which you didn't bother to explain until pressed.]

wtf?  Fuck you! 

Apart from that, your reply sounds reasonable to me. 

Comment by Unseen on May 12, 2012 at 6:41pm

You can't talk like that in here.

Comment by Simon Paynton on May 13, 2012 at 3:14pm

Unseen, you're passive-aggressive, and you have a talent for pissing people off.  You say rude things to people and then pretend to wonder why they get upset - like a child. 

Comment by John Kelly on May 13, 2012 at 3:34pm

I am unsure of what is meant by "didn't bother to explain".  It seems self-explanatory as non-biological life.  The comment though seemed within an acceptable level of expression of frustration that is common in arguments..  But since personal attacks aren't allowed here, it would be better to just call out whatever feels like offensive behavior in a more polite way.  If they end up just being taken the wrong way, or with the wrong tone, or if they just weren't worded right and intent wasn't clear, it ends up making things a bit of a mess.  

In this case, it concerns how much emphasis was intended for the word "bother" if it was terribly de-emphasized and it could just be an elongated expression meaning "explain".  Those kind of things get into spoken language and don't seem much different, but in writing they look rather odd.

Comment by Simon Paynton on May 13, 2012 at 3:37pm

Uh-uh, he said it twice, and it was rude to say it even once.  He does this a lot.  This is what passive-aggressive people do - wind someone up quietly, then stand back while they go off like a Roman Candle, and say "look everyone how bad he is".  Deliberately insulting.  He needs to grow up. 

Comment by Simon Paynton on May 13, 2012 at 3:38pm

Called out. 

Comment by Unseen on May 13, 2012 at 7:59pm

@Simon Paynton   No, I seem to have a "talent" (as you call it) for pissing you and Atheist Exile off, and I don't even have to try.

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