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Atheist Exile commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'It's over...'
"Just give it plenty of thought. It's been my experience that things tend to work out for the better. I hope you find the same is true."
Oct 23, 2009
Stephanie A commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'I am a great mom...'
"You sound like an awesome mother with incredible children that you are raising to become amazing adults! Bug hugs to your whole family. It's such an emotional roller coaster for everyone involved... family changing, moving, new schedules. The…"
Oct 22, 2009
South Ga Freethinker commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'I am a great mom...'
"Thank you!"
Oct 22, 2009
Dave G commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'I am a great mom...'
"Sounds like your kids handled it very well. Letting them ask questions and answering them as best as you can is probably the best thing that you could have done."
Oct 22, 2009
Steve commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'I am a great mom...'
"Glad to hear you told them, you are a great Mom with some amazing kids!"
Oct 22, 2009
Jen commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'I am a great mom...'
"Good for you. I am glad that you were able to tell your children the truth now rather than wait. Honesty is always best and will make it easier in the long run. Plus it gives them more time to deal with the situation before the big move."
Oct 22, 2009
South Ga Freethinker posted a blog post

I am a great mom...

I told my kids last night that my husband and I were getting a divorce. At first of course they were very shocked and upset as was everyone else. We never fought or talked badly about each other in front of them or anyone else. After many tears, and allowing them time to ask questions and answering as honestly as I could, I started talking to them about my plan going forward. I told them we would be moving to the town that I work in. Right now I live 30 minutes from work, and I explained that I…See More
Oct 22, 2009
South Ga Freethinker commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'It's over...'
"Thanks for all the advice. It has been a draining day. I will write about telling the kids tomorrow."
Oct 21, 2009
Reggie commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'It's over...'
"Sorry to hear. I hope all works out for you both and especially the kids."
Oct 21, 2009
Nix Manes commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'It's over...'
"You should probably tell them and tell them together, as Prazzie suggested. But be on the lookout and be vigilant about not letting the kids "take sides" and start to develop an angry attitude toward either of you. It will be the job of…"
Oct 21, 2009
Dave G commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'It's over...'
"I'm sorry about your marriage, but from what you had said earlier, the odds of salvaging it were minimal. I agree that you should probably tell the kids sooner rather than later. My parents kept their impending divorce secret from myself and…"
Oct 21, 2009
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Oct 21, 2009
Prazzie commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'It's over...'
"Tell the kids as soon as possible. The two of you should tell them together and even if they're the smartest children in the world, explain explain and explain again that the fact that your relationship didn't work out has NOTHING to do…"
Oct 21, 2009
Bailey Caran commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'It's over...'
"I agree with you. Kids are people too and you and I can say of course we would want to know as soon as possible for all of those reasons. Kids always seem to have a depth and wisdom that surprises us crazy adults. And you WILL be teaching them a…"
Oct 21, 2009
Steve commented on South Ga Freethinker's blog post 'It's over...'
"I am sorry to about your breakup. In regards to the kids I would tell them when you are ready which seems like right now. I grew up with a alcoholic father and they always took the policy of don't tell the kids. Especially me since I was the…"
Oct 21, 2009
South Ga Freethinker posted a blog post

It's over...

After almost 7 years of marriage mine is over. We talked last night and agreed that there is no hope for reconciliation. He is not able to accept the person I have become, and I am not willing to be someone that I am not any longer. It is very sad to me that two intellegent grown ups cannot figure out how to live with one another. I feel a loss of innocence, and that part of me has died. I think my idea of having an open marriage was just a way for us to be somewhat free of each other but still…See More
Oct 21, 2009

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Your Religious Status
Secular/Nonreligious/Agnostic
About Me:
I was raised southern baptist but, after much reading and studying, have become an agnostic.
Age
31-35
Why are you here?
To meet like-minded people.
The religion you left
Christian

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I am a great mom...

Posted on October 22, 2009 at 5:37am 4 Comments

I told my kids last night that my husband and I were getting a divorce. At first of course they were very shocked and upset as was everyone else. We never fought or talked badly about each other in front of them or anyone else. After many tears, and allowing them time to ask questions and answering as honestly as I could, I started talking to them about my plan going forward. I told them we would be moving to the town that I work in. Right now I live 30 minutes from work, and I explained that I… Continue

It's over...

Posted on October 21, 2009 at 4:47am 9 Comments

After almost 7 years of marriage mine is over. We talked last night and agreed that there is no hope for reconciliation. He is not able to accept the person I have become, and I am not willing to be someone that I am not any longer. It is very sad to me that two intellegent grown ups cannot figure out how to live with one another. I feel a loss of innocence, and that part of me has died. I think my idea of having an open marriage was just a way for us to be somewhat free of each other but still… Continue

Rejection

Posted on October 20, 2009 at 4:37am 5 Comments

I have been searching for myself my entire life. I think that as a teenager I realized that who I was did not fit with what society said I should be. Because of this I retreated into myself and became very depressed, wishing I had never been born. At some point I must have subconciously decided to just play along and try to be what everyone wanted me to be. And so I lived, for many years, being what others wanted me to be and doing what others wanted me to do. I played the game of life, and… Continue

There's nowhere left to go...

Posted on October 11, 2009 at 8:45am 7 Comments

This morning it hit me that we have nowhere left to go. Throughout history when people could not get along with each other, they would find another place to live. A new place to live brought with it hope for tomorrow and a better community. A new place was where you could start over and have another chance to "get it right". But now we are faced with the reality that our weapons are too advanced and our spaceships are not advanced enough for us to just run away. We have got to learn to get… Continue

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At 2:34pm on October 2, 2009, Aric said…
Welcome to the site fellow Georgian!
 
 
 

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