Hello everyone, I know the issue of having rational conversations with fundamentalist family members has been discussed in the past, but I recently had a conversation with my mother, that I would…Continue
"You have two choices. You deal with her or you cut her out of your life. I personally wouldn’t have contact with anyone that treated me that way. I would go as far as calling her and telling her you are done and why. Leave it at that. Maybe…"
"Always remember the YOC rule! "Yes; uh-hu; of course"! When she phones you and 3/4 of your answers aren't these: your are doing it wrong.
Long answers will result in the conversation partner asking more question. Sounding bored…"
"I struggled with that for a while Doug... the whole issue has been approaching the boiling point for some time, and something changed within me last night that I could not accept it any longer. I knew what her reaction would be, but even after she…"
"Thanks guys, I appreciate the advice. I think, like Reg said, I'm going to let everything cool off before I make contact with her again. I don't want to have another discussion while I am still angry (which I am now).