"I was gonna leave this alone, because it made me so angry that you think you have a right to do this, but all I'll say is this: either you're queer or you're not. I can't believe there's a person out there who is so selfish…"
"You've both given me something to think about from a different perspective. But how is "experimenting" any different than what anyone else does? Do we not ALL experiment as teenagers? The one woman I went out with the one time, I made…"
"This, so much. Don't get me wrong - these days, I'll take a gay environment/hanging with gay people over straight people any day, for the simple reason that I get tired of doing just what we've been doing in this thread, and…"
"Broad brush, Davis, gay guys do have multiple sexual flings, as indeed do straight guys, given the chance. Women tend to have fewer exploits, and are drawn towards the fuller aspects of a relationship. Lesbians are too.
I can conceive the idea of a…"
"Also, I want to add, Davis Goodman, that this is why I told her to make her intentions clear. IDK about gay men, but with gay women there are a hell of A LOT of women like Belle, who label themselves bisexual, pretend they want a relationship, and…"
"Haha, thanks. The more I thought about it, and the more I tried to reason with them - especially the ones who like to sit up in church and rock and pray and shit - I realized I just couldn't do it. I can't even fuck a believer at this…"
"That may be okay in the gay guy community, Davis, but this is something that's really frowned upon by most lesbians. See Strega's U-Haul joke.
It also kind of hurts our community because it's women who do what Belle is doing who…"
"So here's another perspective, Belle. There is a common joke amongs the lesbian community that goes
Q. What does a lesbian take to her second date?
A. A U-haul
The reason it's considered amusing is that in the lesbian lifestyle, most are…"
"I think that the answer to this question is more than a little subjective. If you are long term oriented then yes that might be fair. But some gay people knowingly have flings with bicurious people. Especially for gay men many have strong fantasies…"
"Another thing about what you are doing that is offensive is that you completely make a mockery of how difficult it is to be truly queer in a world that doesn't value or accept you. You grew up straight, walked in the straight world. You will…"
"Because those of us who are ACTUALLY LGBTQ are looking for ACTUAL relationships. Our lives are hard enough. We have fought for equal civil rights and we still aren't there. The last thing we want is for some straight girl to wander in, pretend…"
"Oh, this was four years ago haha, but thanks! Really old thread. I just randomly wandered in here and saw the replies were recent.
I just can't date theists. It feels like intellectual pedophilia. There's just something so juvenile to me…"
"You didn't ask me, Tierra, but for the most part being pansexual - from what I understand - is being attracted to people regardless of gender - meaning, cisgender men and women, as well as those who are gender non conforming, transgender,…"
"Hi Tierra, for my own education- how do you describe being "pansexual?" Im just curious. I've always considered myself totally heterosexual. Met up with a lesbian once to see if I had any feelings whatsoever in being sexual with…"
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