I thought I posted this once but it doens't show up that I could see, sorry if you read through this all before. Three years ago they found cancer in both of my wife's (now 52) breasts, after the mastectomy and chemo treatment we thought we were in the clear and reay to go on with life.  A year later the second shoe dropped and the cancer was found in her bones; spine, pelvis, rib, skull.  Accord…