I'm a newish atheist. Two years, I guess. My husband knows, my kids do not. My friends suspect. I'm trying to be careful how and when I come out. So, I have no one IRL to talk to. I've just started reading here after having the site recommended to me by an atheist blogger. My husband is amazingly cool about it. He lost his faith a few years ago but I think it was out of anger because he's back at…