I have an extended family that is very relaxed religiously.  There are Catholics, pagans, Buddhists, Deists, Agnostics etc.  However while everyone is supportive of everyone else, when I say I don't believe in any of it, I get a somewhat incredulous reaction.   It seems that at the very least you are suppose to believe in something.  A cosmic conscience.  A spiritual connection. It can be vague,…