I always knew my brother-in -law was pretty cool. But today he, my wife and I were talking at our nephew's 1st birthday party. He brought up how a friend of his was talking to him about what he thinks death is like. My brother-in-law said that it's kind of hard to think about it sometimes, but he equates it to the state you're in before you're born. You didn't mind not being alive before, why wou…