I saw this Advice area and thought, why not, it won't hurt to ask for some LOL! My fiance has probably got the worst possible type of family in the history of the world's families!!  Well, OK, maybe not that bad, but damn near close. His mom is a recovering addict, and I do give her kudos for getting away from the drugs and alcohol, but it has not changed her one bit in any good way.  She now has…