Hi all, I know christmas 2012 is a ways off, but I'm already thinking about some issues that might arise and how to deal with it. Background Info: My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, and we've lived together for 2.5 of those years, and we're both atheists (although he's still a bit closeted). We're very much together and in love and we were tired of spending so much time apart for…