Coming Out Godless: What's Your Story?


Coming Out Godless: What's Your Story?

We all come from different backgrounds & have different reasons for identifying ourselves as atheist or agnostic.

Whatever your story is, we'd like to hear it. Please share & encourage others who are considering "coming out"!

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How to tell your Religious Parents you are Atheist

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It was pretty much like this.

Started by Lewal. Last reply by Lewal Feb 26, 2013. 2 Replies

Coming out to my catholic parents

Started by Colleen. Last reply by Colleen Feb 20, 2013. 18 Replies

Being an 'out' Atheist at work.

Started by Zombie Atheist. Last reply by Jens Schwaiger Oct 10, 2012. 6 Replies

How committed are you to your atheism?

Started by Anachro1. Last reply by Ken Hughes Mar 1, 2012. 29 Replies

A part of my story!

Started by Wen Vides Feb 20, 2012. 0 Replies

Your god contradicts all I live for.

Started by Sebastian Torren G.. Last reply by Suzanne Olson-Hyde Oct 12, 2011. 2 Replies

Here I Am

Started by Kat Humble. Last reply by Kat Humble Sep 20, 2011. 4 Replies

Another Brit - religion as a dangerous habit.

Started by Helen Pluckrose. Last reply by Steve Sep 4, 2011. 3 Replies

How I Lost My Faith in One Month's Time

Started by Kim. Last reply by Jack Frost May 30, 2011. 28 Replies

I DON'T recommend "coming out" if you're ...

Started by Sadly 'M' iCantSay. Last reply by Patrick Earley Apr 18, 2011. 49 Replies

Where do I go from here?

Started by Kevin Marks. Last reply by LovelyGirl Apr 10, 2011. 3 Replies

i don't think i'll be a christian much longer...

Started by S.S.. Last reply by MikeTheInfidel Mar 27, 2011. 15 Replies

From Bible-literalist Fundie to Outspoken Atheist

Started by MikeTheInfidel. Last reply by MikeTheInfidel Mar 27, 2011. 3 Replies

Sharing my story for the very first time

Started by Ingrid S. Last reply by Ingrid S Mar 27, 2011. 2 Replies

Losing My Religion

Started by Wesafc. Last reply by Wesafc Mar 22, 2011. 2 Replies

Ireland deeply religous?... nope... hi, i'm Atheist.

Started by Gavin Mills. Last reply by Ken Hughes Mar 21, 2011. 4 Replies

My Story

Started by Jessica Cox. Last reply by Jessica Cox Mar 20, 2011. 2 Replies

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Comment by Roxy641 on February 16, 2009 at 4:55pm
I don't think there is one moment where I've "come out" as Atheist, although I do in small ways perhaps.

My parents "attempted" to raise me a Catholic (but I never believed in their god, or any other one for that matter), but I am pleased to say they have failed.

Why did they fail? Well, none of it made sense. I attended church every Sunday (at the time I thought my parents were quite religious, but now when I've heard so many horror stories, they don't seem that religious). If there was a film of my life they would be two versions, one where you could hear what the priest was saying and the other would be how it sound to me "...Blah, blah, blah, holy ghost, blah, blah, blah, god..." I think you get the picture now.

I wasn't very active until Richard Dawkins did the Xmas Lecture in December 1991, I was at home from college holidays, and when I went back to Birmingham I immediately brought his book "The Selfish Gene". Not only did the book appeal to me on a science level, but was pleased that Mr Dawkins didn't mind informing people that he was an Atheist.

When I was searching for internet websites on Atheism I discovered the Atheist Network radio station. Still to this day I don't know why we aren't at that level.
Comment by Rev. Tom Hicks, D.D. on February 6, 2009 at 6:22am
Comment by Jaco on February 5, 2009 at 1:52am
I was brought up a protestant christain, always tried do do my part and playd in a church band...ect.ect. But the more i became involved the more it started to think that it is all just major BS. So i started looking for God but he was nowhere to be found and just one day I decided (whith a bit of help from Metal) to call it quits. Still would like for God, Santa, Fairies, Unicorns and Valhalla to be true though...But reality is always better than fantasy.
Comment by entropy on February 2, 2009 at 10:37pm
I was brought up Hindu, but it was never really forced upon me; fortunately, my parents understood my skepticism and allowed me to choose my own path. However, while in high school, many of my Christian friends didn't share my parent's laissez-faire attitude, it seemed that one person or another was constantly trying to "save" me. I did humor them once, I attended church for a while, and even studied some of their fairy tales during bible study sessions. I found it all very amusing at first, then deeply disturbing - how could so many otherwise intelligent people be swept up in the same delusions?

Anyhow, it seems that I just wasn't built for faith, I can't remember a time even in my early childhood that I wasn't skeptical of religion's ricockulous claims. But I did believe in Santa Claus, go figure!?

The burden of proof lies with those that assert the existence of a god, not the other way around. To my knowledge, no credible evidence has ever been put forth.
Comment by Laura on February 1, 2009 at 11:47pm
Long story short: My parents don't feel strongly about faith at all, so I wasn't raised by them to be religious, although I did attend CCD growing up. My aunt, however, is a fundie, and she also practically raised, so for a point in my life I was ready to accept Jesus Christ as my lord and savior. But then I found out he's imaginary =).
Comment by Pam on February 1, 2009 at 10:21am
My story is another long one, and in a blog post.

Hope it's entertaining for a few minutes anyway. :)
Comment by Pixy Giggles on January 23, 2009 at 8:02am
My story turned out quite a bit longer than I intended; so I published it as a blog:
I think more than anything I just needed to write it all down and get it off my chest, lol. Comments are welcomed!
Comment by Frink on January 15, 2009 at 12:31pm
My story is a bit long to post in the forums, but if anyone wants something decent to read, I've blogged it:
Comment by Kimbo (not Slice) on January 10, 2009 at 4:00pm
I was raised Catholic and attended Catholic school for all 12 years. I was fairly devout and became even more so in high school. I was always much more serious about Catholicism than either of my parents. Losing God was a gradual process that began after I got to college. My entire freshman year I still considered myself a good Catholic even though I stopped going to Mass every Sunday. By sophomore year I thought that most of the dogma and rituals of the Church were clearly ridiculous but I still believed in some sort of higher power. Junior year was when I actually gave some thought to the matter. I was taking a class on wars and studying the primary documents and seeing how much reference is given to God by all sides made it look so ludicrous. I started investigating my beliefs and the likelihood of God (or any gods). Looking at the evidence, it was clear that there was none and the last vestige of belief that I had was gone. It wasn't a particularly painful thing for me. I had no struggles about losing the "meaning of life" or any such matter. In that way, I guess I was lucky. Actually, being an atheist made the world that much more wondrous for me. I take greater stock on a the value of life now as an atheist than I ever did as a Catholic. We've only got one and it can't be squandered.
Comment by Luna Agimat on January 8, 2009 at 1:08am
I was baptized and raised as a Catholic. . My parents sent me to a catholic school. But I can say that they are not good catholics because they not even practicing their morals, all they do was pray and attend mass. They are not even good parents. My good friends are also christian. I am currently enrolled in a very religious college run by what they call "the dominican fathers". I'm sick and tired of forcing myself to attend masses and religious events. And no matter how I told myself "Nica, there is god, please believe.." , my mind and heart tells me that there is none. I even went to a confession last month and told our school priest that I doubt the existence of god hoping that he will give me good explanation but he says was,, "don't worry,god will forgive you..he loves pray 3 hail marys" OYG! -When I was in my elementary years, I remember arguing with my theology professors, I always ask them honest questions that they thinks is criticizing, I end up in the prefect of disciplines office when all I want is answers. What a life! I remember getting a gold medal for best in religion in grade 6! Haha! I have lived sometime in my life that I think I'm bad because of my beliefs. But now I am very open and i want to tell them that there is nothing wrong with me because I am doing things that I think is right,, without following whoevers commandments but myself.. I can practice good morals and right conduct without believing that somebody out there created me. Please help me in doing that.. How can I start? How can my family, my friends understand? So that I can comeout Thanks...

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It was pretty much like this.

Started by Lewal. Last reply by Lewal Feb 26, 2013. 2 Replies

Coming out to my catholic parents

Started by Colleen. Last reply by Colleen Feb 20, 2013. 18 Replies

Being an 'out' Atheist at work.

Started by Zombie Atheist. Last reply by Jens Schwaiger Oct 10, 2012. 6 Replies

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