As an atheist..should i enjoy life and have relationships with girls and taste alot in life and had many expereinces but also bad memories..or should i search one love and marry but dont taste alot in life
Chivalry is dead
And yet, you so clearly believe in it.
What you call "empty sex" is really natural sex. The sex virtually every other mammal does.
The kind of sex you're talking about is un-natural sex. It's a human invention.
In the West, romance arose in the Middle Ages where it seems to have begun with the chivalry depicted in the Arthurian legend. It's absent before then and in most other cultures with the exceptions of Japan and India.
I do think the many single well-preened women I see on Friday and Saturday night walking around in the nearby nightclub district, wearing very short dresses and platform shoes in groups of two, three, or four, may be hoping to meet Mr. Right, but many of them would be happy for a good one-nighter if that's what it comes down to.
Are you unaware of the "hooking up" phenomenon? (Used to be called doing a "one night stand.") Nowadays, as they say, "there's an app for that."
Men do their share of "settling," too. Settling for sex with a price tag of coddling a need for intimacy in the usually vain hope of having regular sex. A hope that often lasts about as long as the appearance of the first baby. Face it: many women view a "relationship" as a way to get a baby and have it supported.