Two people,who I'm sort of friends with,and I had a conversation yesterday.The first person who I'll call E doesn't seem to be that homophobic but the other person who I'll call G seems to be (at least) a bit homophobic.I can't remember what started the conversation or the exact comments so I'll do a summary.
G was saying lesbians were weird but men liking men was fine.
E sort of agreed but she usually defends gay people.
I thought that G and E were homophobic but on different levels.I wish I asked them about bisexual people.
It's possible that G was not being homophobic (lesbophobic?) but was perhaps, badly, expressing her own visceral reaction. She can't help not being into women, and it sounds like she is intellectually perfectly accepting, but has an emotional reaction, if that makes sense.