I got married back in 2005 and that was my wedding cake with a heartagram. our wedding was more for immigration purposes then any other but later i found out that i could have gotten a civil union instead but the paper didn't matter so much. it was more like we wanted to world to see us as serious couple who wanted to spend forever together... at that time in our lives i would say we didn't think of our selves as atheists but we knew were were not religious. we wrote our own vows and made sure god stayed out of it. lol and to think that when we met we were still open to religion.