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Depression/ Bipolar Support

Support group for those dealing with Depression/ Bipolar conditions.

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Deppression

I deal with depression on a daily basis. I am also bipolar.

I've found that , in most areas, the only support offered is Faith based. Something I do not like.

Post how you deal with depression, or bipolar "disorder". If you take medications that work for you tell us. If you take some that don't work or have side effects let us know.

You are not alone.

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Started by Karl Terrell Nightshade Jun 22. 0 Replies

Loss of sense of purpose

Started by Anjo Bautista. Last reply by Karl Terrell Nightshade Jun 21. 26 Replies

I want to get off now.

Started by Sarah. Last reply by Lewal Oct 20, 2013. 63 Replies

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Comment by Karl Terrell Nightshade on June 22, 2014 at 3:22am
Comment by Karl Terrell Nightshade on June 19, 2014 at 6:13pm

I, too, am bi-polar. I'm also a CPRS (certified peer recovery specialist). I'm not asking for your precise location, but your general area. I may be able to help.

Comment by Simon Paynton on June 19, 2014 at 5:56pm

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Comment by Simon Paynton on June 19, 2014 at 5:33pm

@Diane - fuck it, you've got to laugh, haven't you?  Things can be fucking funny. 

"I love it when Christians, and it is always Christians, try to convince me that my depression comes from being disconnected from God."  - I know you probably don't need abstract philosophy at a time like this, but I believe there's substance to this statement, if you translate it into atheist terms. 

In atheist terms they're talking about the Healing Principle and its moral companion, Heal the Situation (please follow links for more information).  This may be a new idea and it may look like nothing, but if you don't balk at it initially, and give it some deep mind-wrenching thought, - try it and I hope you will see what I mean. 

The big issue of course is how to get in touch with and take a ride / get high on the Healing Principle.  This translates into actions, thoughts, attitudes.  Mindfulness meditation is central to this (the Healing Principle lives underneath our entire existence; our ego, which ironically seeks personal comfort, may hold it back). 

If it looks religious, that's because it is - a central aspect of religion translated into atheist terms. 

The site's only half-finished, but the ideas are maturing well, so if you have any questions, ask away and I should be able to help answer them. 

Comment by Unseen on June 19, 2014 at 12:45pm

@Strega - How bizarre. Are there no followers of God that suffer from bi-polar disorder then?

They're the sinners, silly!

Comment by Karl Terrell Nightshade on June 19, 2014 at 10:07am

WHAT? CHRISTIANS DEPRESSED YOU ASK?!? Sheep are always happy. Right up to the slaughter house, that is...

Comment by Strega on June 19, 2014 at 9:49am
"I love it when Christians, and it is always Christians, try to convince me that my depression comes from being disconnected from God."

How bizarre. Are there no followers of God that suffer from bi-polar disorder then?
Comment by Unseen on June 19, 2014 at 12:33am

When I was in a two year depression, I got great help from a clinical social worker who worked for Lutheran Family Services. I told her I just wanted secular counseling and she honored that wish.

I have a bipolar nephew, so I have some idea what you are going through.

Comment by Diane on June 18, 2014 at 10:35pm
I saw my therapist today.  We talked about a lot of things, and at the end he said, "You laugh the most of any depressed person I have known." 

I laugh at myself, in spite of myself.  I chuckle at my own laughter.  I literally laugh at depression.  I may have some sub-optimal brain chemistry going on, but I can find humor almost anywhere.  I look for it.  I want to laugh twice for every discouraged sigh I have ever breathed, every hope I have abandoned.

I'm not talking about maniacal cackling, although I think I may have done that recently when, after announcing that I was leaving the picnic table to get some water and would be gone for a few minutes, returned mere seconds later with a bratwurst and no water. 

What I want, what I always wanted, was to short-circuit my thinking.  I struggle to see the world as a place in which I can continue to live, and yet there is no acceptable alternative.  I have to twist my mind to fit whatever reality seems to be.  At any given moment, I've (figuratively) got The Three Stooges playing next to The Deer Hunter in the theater of my mind.  I find it is the only way I can cope with the world.

I love it when Christians, and it is always Christians, try to convince me that my depression comes from being disconnected from God.  I could see going to church helping me from a social aspect.  It would be great if it weren't for the bit about God. What they fail to understand is that I want no part of any deity that a) allows so much suffering to happen to living creatures, and b) would handicap me with depression and then blame me for being depressed because I don't believe in any god. 

I have long allowed myself a possible way out of both depression and atheism: insanity.  If I decide I can't stand my life any more, I could immerse myself in Christian literature, surround myself with Christians, and make myself forget that it doesn't make sense.  I could rest easy, knowing that after this miserable/hysterical life is over, there will be no more suffering.  I would have a safety net, a lifeline, an anchor.  Who wouldn't want that?  As it is now, I cannot allow myself to have that comfort because it would mean letting go of reason.

I will deal with life as it is, and myself as I am, because that is how it is.  I guess I will have to think of another plan when I stop thinking sausage is funny.

 

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Started by Karl Terrell Nightshade Jun 22. 0 Replies

Loss of sense of purpose

Started by Anjo Bautista. Last reply by Karl Terrell Nightshade Jun 21. 26 Replies

I want to get off now.

Started by Sarah. Last reply by Lewal Oct 20, 2013. 63 Replies

"I have cyclothymia" is easier to say than "I suffer from a mental illness."

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