Can you explain why people assume that it's good to be sex-positive? Why be sex-positive instead of sex-skeptical and/or sex-ambivalent? Isn't sex-positivity a form of primitivism and bio-Luddism? What experimental-psychological evidence do sex-positives have to back their claims, if any? And if sex-positivity is not OK, then why is it that a majority of atheists are sex-positive? Or are they not?
"Masturbation usually does not raise any moral questions at all. It is surely the case that many women have found great good in self-pleasuring... (which) actually serves relationships rather than hindering them."
So wrote a little lady who may well have been a bit more sex-positive than she was "supposed" to be, and that's not all she had to say --
I prefer to be optimistic about sex- as in, I am not positive I will get some-
Sex is better than masturbation- but not as "handy".
Since we are all fleshbots programmed at random by our language and society and driven by our instincts, it seems to me that all we can do is enjoy what this reality brings without harming others.