Can you explain why people assume that it's good to be sex-positive? Why be sex-positive instead of sex-skeptical and/or sex-ambivalent? Isn't sex-positivity a form of primitivism and bio-Luddism? What experimental-psychological evidence do sex-positives have to back their claims, if any? And if sex-positivity is not OK, then why is it that a majority of atheists are sex-positive? Or are they not?
I prefer to be optimistic about sex- as in, I am not positive I will get some-
Sex is better than masturbation- but not as "handy".
Since we are all fleshbots programmed at random by our language and society and driven by our instincts, it seems to me that all we can do is enjoy what this reality brings without harming others.