We've had countless discussions on here about the religious colloquialisms and sayings that others say that we tolerate (e.g. many don't mind something like, ("I hope you get better soon - I'll pray for you", or something as simple as "bless you" after a sneeze). But what about the other end of the spectrum?
What are the xian, or religious for that matter, sayings that drive you crazy or get under your skin? For instance, here are a couple of mine...
You get the idea.
Can't wait to read your thoughts on this!
What has always bothered me is the fact our mom dropped us off there, because she wanted to go to a religious meeting and wanted something to occupy us while she was at her meeting.
Wow, that's like a double whammy - for both you and her. And I understand if this has caused a rift between you two, because your mom's religion both contributed to your sister's death and your anger - and it CONTINUES to keep that wound open each and every time you hear her say it, or you remember it.
BTW - and please don't take this the wrong way - you may want to go talk to a psychiatrist or therapist. It is nothing to be ashamed of - I see both a shrink and a therapist to keep me from becoming incapacitated with depression. I always thought that seeing a therapist was a waste of time, but in hindsight I definitely see the value in it because it helps you vocalize the stuff that hurts you, and talking it out is the first step in helping you cope and come to grips with it.
Either way I am truly sorry for your loss.
Just a thought.
Ann, that is just heartbreaking. I am so sorry.
Ann, I am so sorry, that sounds horrendous and sickening, especially hearing that as a child.
Maybe that's her way of rationalizing and coping with her loss - and I am sure she was, and still is, wracked with guilt; I know I would be. However if I were in your shoes, and it was my sister that drowned, I would find that offensive and ludicrous.
My guess? Clinging to that belief is probably the only thing that keeps her from becoming incapacitated with guilt and grief.
When reality hurts too much, people tend to hide in fantasy.
"just let god deal with it"
so in other words, just sit on your ass and do nothing about it? What a beautiful piece of advice ... if only it worked.
I actually like this quote...without the God part, lol.
I get what you're saying and totally agree. But I had to laugh at the combo of "F*CK YOU...Believe in YOURSELF." Very motivational! Hehe.
Upon learning I am an Atheist, a friend of mine said, "Well, you can believe what you want, but if you're OK with burning in hell for eternity, then...(shrug)"
But the worst is this habit of people where I live(Eastern NC) saying, "you have a blessed day!" I always want to respond with FUCK OFF!...but hold my tongue.
I hate it when people say "Thank God!!!" when I've done something for them. Or, when someone else (say, a doctor) does something (like save their life) for them. Thank the effing doctor! It's such a huge insult to so many people who've put in hours of work, and then a Christian will just act like it's all a miracle that sprang out of no where. Nooo... that doctor didn't train for years and years to perform the "miracle" that saved your life! God just popped him into existence for your benefit!