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Permalink Reply by Simon Paynton on March 13, 2013 at 5:30am For men and women to be able to communicate freely.
Permalink Reply by Hank Hell on March 13, 2013 at 10:10am Can they not? Please elaborate if you care to.
Permalink Reply by kOrsan on March 13, 2013 at 7:47am I want women to stop relying on their looks. Pretty self-explanatory.
I want women to start relying on themselves. Don't expect others to bend to your will just because you have tits. It will work 90% of the time but you might one day encounter a guy who's not a complete loser and he'll tell you to pound sand, no matter how much cleavage you reveal to try and get him to do your work. Then you're fucked.
I want women to be more autonomous and have self-respect. Stop putting your happiness into the hands of others. I'm sick and sad of hearing about little teenaged girls killing themselves because they dated some smoking edgy 24 year old pedophile who told them they're pretty and then left them. Teach your daughters some self-respect.
I want women to stop pissing away their youth with worthless shit like fashion and gossip, and read a fucking book for a change so when look for a smart girl I may actually find one instead of all the vapid cows out there who can't hold a conversation for more than 10 seconds if it's not about their god fucking hair or clothes. Most of the girls I encounter in real life are so intellectually underwhelming I often pity the air they steal. They don't even think about advancing within the intellectual realm before they get to see their first stretch marks and wrinkles and get a taste of mortality.
I want women to stop being hypocrites by either stopping to demand equal rights, or accept everything that comes with it. We will know we have achieved equality when you piss a man off and he smacks you in the nose with his fist when you deserve it - just like he'd do if your were another man - and nobody looks at him sexist. Then we'll know. Just the other day there was a fight at the bar across from where I live. They got out and some drunk bitch was yelling at some big bald guy, insulting him and trying to spit at him. She had a boyfriend with her (who I first mistook for another woman). Baldy kicked her, and her boyfriend's ass. The guy got up and bitched some, then got in a cab. Listen, neither you nor your friends have the right to pull the "you can't hit women" hypocrite-joker. If you want to talk shit like a man, to a man, then you got to deal with the consequences, like a man. I know that woman was counting on her mate to back her shit up. This kinda ties in with my point about relying on others. You can't talk shit just because you're with a guy. It's not his duty to defend your every outburst. I know he's probably one of those machos who'd back you up usually, instead of doing the right thing by telling you to stfu and not start a fight, but it's kind of a bad idea considering you were up against a fucking gladiator that time. Again, just because you're a women doesn't mean you can rely on others to pull their punches. In this case literally. Enjoy the busted lip. Live and learn.
I want women to stop marrying off young and breeding like animals when they could instead help themselves, and the world, by studying or engaging in a career. Just because your family is stupid and puts pressure on you doesn't mean you should throw away all your potential into the trashcan and settle down. That reminds me.
I want women to stop blaming others for their own failure. No you're not unsuccessful because your school was sexist. Shut the fuck up. While looking for an internship I have experienced a shit ton more discrimination than any girl and I could write an entire blog on just that. Stop pretending you got a harder time when in fact the complete opposite is true. People let a lot more shit slide and open you a lot more doors when you're a hot chick.
I want women to stop buying into superstitious bullshit like astrology (aka the belief that hunks of rock and dirt floating around in gas in outer space can affect your personality. One of the only 12 personality types there are on earth. Idiots). This is true for men too, but it's even more so important for women. Because whenever you buy into shit like that, you're lending credence to the same superstitious bullshit that is ultimately enslaving your gender. No matter how moderate of a religious person you are, or if you just enjoy pretending like tealeaves can predict your empty future, you are essentially propagating the lie. I have known so many supposedly liberal and even feminist women, who when I ask them agree with me that some religious/cultural things are oh so fucking misogynistic, and how they hate veils and beating women etc. But I also know those same dumbasses pray on Fridays. Good fucking job. That's as if a vegetarian was walking around protesting McDonnalds for serving beef while wearing a fur coat. You're nullifying everything you say and stand for. You have to be more careful than men because men couldn't care less. I could become a fucking imam if I wanted to, because the only requirement is being a good liar and having a penis. You couldn't. You have to fight for your freedom. If men help that's cool, but you have to do your own part too. If we are to wipe out this cancer we need every bit of chemo there is. I know I'm speaking to mainly atheist women here, so next time one of your dumbass friends comes over and spouts some new age bs about ghosts and bioenergy or whatnot, educate her.
There are some more points but I'm done with the rant. And obviously when I say "women" I don't mean "all women," and when I say "you" I don't literally mean YOU. I'm also against violence but if you provoke someone enough, you deserve equal treatment. This should all go without saying but I'm almost sure someone would be offended by either.
Permalink Reply by archaeopteryx on March 13, 2013 at 1:48pm Wow, k - why don't you tell us how you really feel --? :)
If I added all your comments from day 1, they wouldn't amount to your comment above - the "man of a few words opens up!"
I do agree with most of what you said, though, but I'm still a little uneasy about hitting women - I'll admit I did hit one once, but only after she kicked me between the legs as I was walking away from an argument. Even then, I was sorry, but she attacked me from behind, and I was conditioned in the army to instantly and unthinkingly defend any attack from the rear, as your opponent already has the edge, so I did.
Permalink Reply by kOrsan on March 13, 2013 at 2:09pm If I added all your comments from day 1, they wouldn't amount to your comment above - the "man of a few words opens up!"
"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt."
I try to stay succinct.
To be honest, most of the time, even if I have the necessary conviction, I just don't care enough to respond more than a few lines on most topics. Besides that, it's also because this is an atheist forum, and most people are already on the right track, and I would only be reiterating what had already been said. We already agree on and know about most of the things going on in our lives. But women and their rights and behaviors is still an area of relatively great interest to me, because this is something where even intellectual atheists fuck up a lot. It deserves more attention, a lot more, because as it is now we're pissing away close to half of the human species' potential. But I digress, this should be saved for another thread.
And being uneasy about hitting women is normal. I don't feel "easy" or comfortable hitting anybody. But if some bitch tried to cowardly kick me in the balls from behind I'd probably grate a pineapple on her face.
Permalink Reply by archaeopteryx on March 13, 2013 at 2:34pm RE: "I try to stay succinct." - you are always that.
In the instance I described, one set of conditioning overrode another, but I might have demonstrated better control. But then, if I could have, I would have.
Permalink Reply by Jimmy Russell on March 13, 2013 at 7:45pm Fuck man I'd like to drink some beers and smoke some pot with YOU dude. Then go crash a bachalorette party hah.
by YOU i do mean Korsan
Permalink Reply by Dustin on March 13, 2013 at 2:50pm Wow. My thoughts exactly. You just did a whole lot better at explaining it than I did in the other thread.
Permalink Reply by matt.clerke on March 13, 2013 at 6:29pm BUUUUUUURRRRNNNN!!!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Kairan Nierde on March 14, 2013 at 12:11am I agree with the statements you have in bold. Some of your assumptions are a little whack but I imagine that to be because your perspective is somewhat constrained.
I hope that you are able to work through your obvious frustration with these types of women you've described and that you can someday find a woman who is interested in you and will also satisfy some of your expectations. I have to wonder how you meet all these gems though. Maybe a new approach is warranted?
Permalink Reply by kOrsan on March 14, 2013 at 2:15am Some of your assumptions are a little whack
Be more specific.
I hope that you are able to work through your obvious frustration with these types of women you've described
I hope not. I dislike these types with all my heart and I want it to stay that way. I'd honestly turn gay before stooping so low as to try and mingle with them.
and that you can someday find a woman who is interested in you and will also satisfy some of your expectations.
Amen.
I have to wonder how you meet all these gems though
Yeah lets not pretend like they're a tiny minority, alright.
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