I was sitting in my room on the computer when I suddenly got an urge to "try something new" with another woman. After I had repented, flogged myself several times, and promised to offer a burnt offering for forgiveness to the All-Powerful, All-Omnipotent, and All-Merciful Ruler of the universe, I skipped back to my bed and said a long, remorseful prayer. Refreshing.
Just kidding :p But, on a more serious note, is this common among either gender? I might just be asking some really weird questions, but does anyone else ever have a moment when they're attracted to the same sex? Is it offensive to people who are naturally inclined to be gay to "experiment"? Personally, even when I was a christian, I didn't know how to deal with the whole issue. It seemed so snotty just to say something like "I love the sinner and not the sin" (picture a victorian noblewoman fanning herself and in a fake, high-pitched voice going "hahahahaha" right after saying this). Now I don't really care. People should be able to be with who they love regardless of who it turns out to be. But I never thought that I'd ever have those types of feelings.
Any other thoughts?
I dislike the expression 'unconditional love'. I would say being my mother's child is actually a pretty significant condition. In a biological sense, that bond can't be severed, but in a symbolic sense it can be.
But that's not my point. Love is a feeling. Just because someone experiences that feeling doesn't mean it guides them to moral or principled behavior toward the people they love. "Do person X and I love each other?" and "Do person X and I have a healthy relationship with each other?" are two very different questions.
Personally I am not attracted to men at all but wouldn't dare judging anyone on who is attracted to the same sex.
Many people who claim to object homosexuality are simply hypocrites that tell their neighbor how upset they are about same-sex marriage and then go online to watch some lesbian porn.
I thought a bit about why in general lesbians are considered hot but two males getting jiggy(FYI I love that word) and came to the conclusion that female-female relations are seen as a very sensual and very feminine and therefore attracts a lot of male attention but a male-male relation makes men look less manly.
That is just my humble opinion about this matter
And YES, I do enjoy lesbian porn.
That's not the point.
Imagine you were a straight male. Let that sink into your mind a bit. Think about beer, football and fart as loud as you can. Now you're in the right mood.
As a male you are very competitive because you want to show the world how superior to other men and therefore manly you are. You simply feel the need to show dominance over pretty much everything.
Now think how manly a guy must look who is getting banged by another guy.
This is obviously a bit exaggerated but that's what I mean when I say it makes men look less manly.