I'm a 6th grade Social Studies teacher. The topic of religion as a part of culture comes up all the time. Today during a discussion of Greek myths, a student (a 12 year-old girl with a sweet smile) asked me if I believed in god. I paused and said, "Well, sure."
I felt that I was having a discussion with a child about Santa or the Easter Bunny. I didn't want to be the one to tell the child that all the adults in her life have been lying to her.
This has been bothering me all day. When this comes up again - I'm sure it will - should I lie as I did today, or should I tell the truth?
Driving a car is a "godless" activity, too, and the activity is responsible for millions of deaths and injuries worldwide over the last century. I don't suppose you own/operate a car, then.
Perhaps avoid the subject and tell the student it doesn't matter what you believe. Then summarize the reality of this issue - "there are many people who believe in a god(s), and there are many people who don't. That is for you to learn about and make a decision about on your own."
I would really like it if the school systems actually worked that way but often in certain areas of the country they do not. Living in the midwest and growing up in a 99% white christian community I can attest to this.
If you tell her that you do not believe in god; she could take you at your word and believe it because you told her so and she trusts you. If you lie to her then you do her a disservice also. The best way to go is to think of something that would make her question her own beliefs and give her tools to come up with an answer for herself. IMO Teach them to think not blind belief systems.
One must consider who and what is it you are teaching to-- An open minded community, a bigoted community, a close minded community, a very simple community, a very complex community. One can teach in Hanover, NH and be mindfully creative, while a few miles away, they root for Rick Santorum.
I think you should tell the truth. If you don't, you are only contributing to society's distrust of teachers in general. Sometime in the future, a child will realise that you'd lied, and their positive perception of you (and all teachers) will be permanently destroyed. As a teacher myself, I wouldn't want to be distrusted because my colleagues are habitual liars.
So now that a few months have gone by, have you been asked this ? again and if so what was your decision?
just for the record...I agree with Eric. Give it to em straight from the heart, It never fails
By the time a child is old enough to ask the question "Is there really a Santa Claus?', they are old enough to know the truth.
I think you should tell her gently that different people belive in different things, and that it is really personal question what you cannot discuss in the class. On the other hand, if I would have been there in your boots, I might have said that I'm atheist, and if you want to know what it means you should talk with your parents. :)
We had teacher for a while when I was about 11-12 and she discussed with us of satanism. Where were really interested, but this all happened in secret not in classroom. And the girl might be kind of unstable, since I seem to recall that she belived have seen demons, or something stupid like that.
Our neighbor has a 13 year old boy. HIs mother once told me that Baran likes me and my sister so much because we are only persons who talks to him like an adult person (except his family). Than I noticed that when I speak to him he really listen to me pay attention what I say.He respects me.
All children are already atheist. We make them to believe in god in time.
If I were you I wolud tell the truth like telling a grown up person