I cannot get my head around people who use this term, & often look at them with a confused expression when I hear 'rest in peace'. What do people mean by this, & why do they feel they need to say it? 

To me & probably all of you, its an empty phrase, meaningless. But still, its branded about more than Angry Birds.

How do you feel with this phrase? & how do you react to it socially? Are you offended by it? Have you never really thought about it? 

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Really Idiotic Platitude

I don't mind "Rest In Peace". To me it just means not to dig up and molest the corpse; let it lie there in peace.

"Cursed be he who moves my bones --"
-- Lassie --

I have only used it once, I think, and that was basically to let people know my father had died.  Of course, I do not think part of his consciousness is on some cloud drinking pina coladas.  I was relieved that he was no longer suffering from the illness that killed him, and that the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune could no longer bother him.  He had had a lot of slings and arrows.  

At the time I thought it was a bit hypocritical of me to say, but I had just lost my dad and wasn't thinking too critically about it.  

Is it demanded of us to think 'critically' 24/7?

I do take random holidays from it just to taste life in different ways. Then I wake up from that simple trance, with the realization that I can't really live there.

I agree, James.  I take regular holidays from it.  Without doing that, I think I'd not be able to do it very well.

My wife had a brain injury from a car accident several years ago, which seems to have interfered with her abstract reasoning, and planning. Sadly she still wants to do the family finances. When the higher functions are intermentent, fans can hit shit at times.

I have been known to use it in that vein:  "now, at least, the suffering is over."   All too many times the process of dying is so drawn out and painful that, to be honest, that oblivion and nonexistence is an improvement and they really are (okay, are not) in a better place once the death actually happens.

Unfortunately, though, that means RIP only makes a degree of sense when it was such a long-and-drawn out process (or perhaps if the whole life was a process of struggle and torment); to use it for, say, someone in their 20s who died quite suddenly in some freak and tragic accident OR for someone who deserved to die makes no sense at all.

I've always looked at is as a religious comment as well, therefore I steer clear.  I do, however say "Rest Easy"  Meaning that they are in a permanent state of rest now. Wishing them comfort in that state.  May be the same thing, but I'm more comfortable using that phrase.  Just my own thoughts...

I came for the atheist debate, but I stayed for the cat chat. Welcome to the internet!

I don't like the phrase and I will talk shit to other atheists and skeptics who use it.


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