After you figure this out let me know how to get the media to stop writing about Sarah Palin.
I think people enjoy watching train wrecks.
Westboro has every right to protest. A cemetary is a private area - the Westboro folks aren't at the burial site.
Celebrate the triumph of free speech. Even free speech you despise.
"I may disagree with what you say, but I will defend unto death your right to say it."
If you oppose the right of anyone to speak their mind (even if you doubt they have one), you oppose free speech.