Thanks for the initiation Sydni ,
I would say that i am just afraid of letting girls in ; my last serious relationship was great ! after that I only had some other dates which I didn't take seriously , just to have fun and get laid : the best thing about those girls is that we agreed from the beginning to have fun and not get serious .
I don't know what's wrong with me ? maybe I don't trust girls anymore or maybe I am just afraid of long relaionships!!! I don't know ?
Maybe I couldn't move on after my last serious relationship !! oh, I didn't mention what happened there ?? She had a car accident and died !! u c !!!!!
Enjoy 'playing the field' and don't want to settle down.
Life is sooooo short to just be with someone for the rest of your life. I have found if you change yourself for someone in ways you know you really would not normally do, it is time to get out.
ALSO! Never change who you are for someone else just for their looks! It is really tacky! I get guys like that all the time.
Oh, atheist only guys.
I'm single because of a multitude of reasons, I was recently in a relationship with a girl, it was a little longer than two years, but we lived together for almost a full two years, the first week I went to college she left me for someone else, I'm still not sure why, I did everything I could for her, I guess we were just too different, but it took me awhile to recover from that, and now it is hard for me to trust someone in that way again, it happens I guess.
I recently got out of a long, miserable engagement. Infidelity and dishonesty was the hallmark of the downs. When it was good, it was good, but obviously you're either happy or you're not. I still love the guy, but he doesn't feel the same. So here I am, single again with a daughter.
I have Asperger's syndrome so I am very awkward. I didn't always get his jokes and I sometimes made facial expressions that made him assume I was angry or upset when I was far from it. I was curious, outwardly, and very blunt. I didn't lie or sugar coat things. I have difficulty with 'personal space'. Although I have certain pet peeves, I don't really believe in things like spouses not being able to look over a person's shoulder on the computer and make a comment, or that people need hidden files and folders on their computer to hide them from spouses. I believe in openness, honesty, and negotiation, and he didn't. Simple as that. He couldn't live with the Asperger's or me.
I currently have a f-w-b type situation.
She's in the Navy and am not up to the emotional drama she tends to bring.
She's fun sexually and to grab pizza with...talking with her is great sometimes.
I'm not actually looking for a relationship at the moment though; also, women my age tend to claim all sorts of weird things that typically result in a break-up with me; for example, my last girlfriend went from heterosexual to lesbian to bisexual to heterosexual to pansexual.. I don't know if I had a part in that or what the deal was. Also, everyone swears to be bisexual in my dorm.
And most older women I encounter lie..LOTS about BIG things. The last older woman I was actually in a relationship was married! :( She was so convincing, or I was so stupid.