So this is a little weird even typing this out but here we go! I have a friend that tells me she loves it when her boyfriend cums in her. Me personally, I just do not see the appeal of getting chummed inside of. Perhaps this is because I have zero desire to have a child. Also, I have a medical issue that gives me a minimal chance of ever having a child.

I am more curious to your responses and that is why I am asking here. 

So I pose the question. What is going through your head when you say to your guy, "cum in me!"? Even if your on birth control. Which my friend is on by the way. 

Views: 42471

Replies to This Discussion

Heh, snicker, snicker

Not sure why it took me so long to come back to this thread, but I may as well inject my own thought seeds, now. (To generalize early, I'll just say "different strokes for different folks".) Personally, I can't imagine cumming outside as a habit. (Not even on a habit.) I also hate the "money shot" in hard core porn. (TMI, yet?)

It seems the two main purposes of ejaculating (for humans) is 1) to impregnate (which has been nature's purpose for a zillion years) and 2) to psychologically bond partners (which is a relatively recent evolutionary adaptation). The second "purpose" has the most variation in our opinions. Some couples can even be sexually incompatible if they disagree enough on it.

(I'm also curious about how gay guys come in on this? As long as I don't have to watch.)


Pablo, you left out the third purpose, which is in fact, Nature's way of making sure we procreate enough - it feels goood!

So, masturbation is back to being a sin? Can I do it till I need to go to Purgatory?

...I can't seem to hit the keys like I used to...

My keyboard has a special opening for that. (I'm just trying to stay on topic, see?)

Just for you, Pope Paul....

Haha, Brave New World, Version 2.0.

Hmm, I wasn't thinking of masturbation. OK, as Pope (Out of Order), I give permission. Please don't harbor guilt, my son. But don't expect me to watch!

Alas, too many men have tried to impress me with their devotion, that way.

Ah, more are coming out.


Its for that one moment when both of you climax at once. there is the rush. you push each other to that breaking point sharing a moment of complete togetherness.  in more scientific terms 

This is the climax of the cycle. It is also the shortest of the four phases, usually only lasting a few seconds.

Men: First, seminal fluid collects in the urethral bulb. This is when a man may have the sensation that orgasm is certain, or "ejaculatory inevitability." Next, semen is ejaculated from the penis. Contractions occur in the penis during the orgasmic phase.

Women: The first third of the vaginal walls contract rhythmically every eight-tenths of a second. (The number and intensity of the contractions vary depending on the individual orgasm.) The muscles of the uterus also contract barely noticeably.

Both: Breathing, pulse rate and blood pressure continue to rise. Muscle tension and blood-vessel engorgement reach a peak. Sometimes orgasm comes with a grasping-type muscular reflex of the hands and feet.

You make it sound so romantic --


Discussion Forum

Conquering Obesity

Started by Heather Spoonheim Aug 29, 2017. 0 Replies

Why I am just like Piper Chapman...what about you?

Started by Belle Rose. Last reply by Belle Rose Sep 17, 2016. 2 Replies

Hello ladies?

Started by Belle Rose Sep 27, 2014. 0 Replies

Domestic Violence Solutions...

Started by Belle Rose. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck May 12, 2013. 45 Replies

WHY must we wear a bra?

Started by Belle Rose. Last reply by Pope Beanie Mar 28, 2016. 61 Replies

© 2019   Created by Rebel.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service