I was chatting with a guy who says he is going through the congregation, one single mom at a time. He says in their quest for a "god fearing" man, church ladies will overlook certain obvious character flaws. The wolf in sheep's clothing is an almost literal analogy. I asked if he believes in god "well sorta". amen.
PS. I can understand how a single mother would look to a church community in hopes the children would have some guidance. Things are seldom as they seem in the world of religion.
Sounds like the prequel to Wedding Crashers, or whatever that movie was called.
Very well put.
I know there are men who join AA even though they aren't alcoholic. They know that women, especially newbies to AA, are very vulnerable to being cajoled into a sexual relationship. Alcoholic men who have achieved sobriety trying to bed newbies even has a name: The Thirteenth Step.
Of course, joining a sex addiction group might seem a more direct approach, but one might find more suspicion among the women, even the newbies, in such a group.
Apparently, it happens often enough. Just google on "aa thirteenth step"
Ew. Just ew. When I went to al-anon, all the guys were fugly and old. I mean, Old.
I'm glad I didn't let any of them near me...men or women.