I realise it may be difficult to navigate how this site works. So there is a chatroom where you can talk with others in a more "live" manner. All you need to do is look on the bottom right hand corner of the site and see "members online" then "main room".
I find chat relaxed and a good place to discuss in relative real time, also just cut loose and just talk about anything. It's amazing how many things we may have in common. I invite all new members to try it out.