Yeah, he was like that. Definitely set up a perimeter keeping one from getting too close. Who knows what his life had been like?
He was very friendly and noble person.. I rarely log in but I had few chat with him,, I enjoyed reading his posts and comments.. Sadly he's gone..
Hi all. I haven't been here in forever! I have maintained communication with Arch over the past few years, however, and I am still in shock about this. Although there was a lot I didn't know about him, we were very close at one time. He let me get closer to who he really was than I thought he would. He told me I was the last woman he would ever love. I had hoped he was wrong, or just being ornery and dramatic, but he probably knew on some level he was not long for this world.
I want to write some kind of eulogy. I kept secrets and didn't betray his trust, but some of it doesn't matter any more. I'm not going to spill everything, but I've got a few things to say. More to come later.
I read this again, and I thought it might have been misleading. When I say I have things to say, I mean as part of processing Arch's death, and nothing unpleasant or disrespectful to him or anyone else. Like others who have posted here, I'm sad about his passing.
I knew what you meant Diane :-)
Oh good! When nobody responded I thought it was something I said.
I didn't read anything untoward into your post. Don't worry about it.
Thanks guys. Just makin' sure...
Life is a series of lessons, I only knew Arch thru this site, this small bit of contact with him was a positive lesson for me.